“I’m used to being judged. I know what that feels like.” — NASCAR driver Michael Waltrip Hypoparathyroidism is an invisible illness. I appear healthy, but I struggle to exercise and become dizzy from low blood pressure. I easily forget things and sometimes can’t remember what I was saying…
Brave Butterfly: A Hypoparathyroidism Journey - a Column by Bari Vapnek
“Grief is the price we pay for love.” — Queen Elizabeth II Today marks a year since my dog, Princess Leia, died. A coton de tulear, Leia was a cute, little, white ball of fluff. She was by my side from the moment I picked her up, Super…
“We’re all in this together/ When we reach/ We can fly/ Know inside/ We can make it/ We’re all in this together.” – “High School Musical” When I was diagnosed with hypoparathyroidism after having surgery for Graves’ disease in 1998, I thought I was the only person with this…
“Just when the caterpillar thought the world was over, it became a butterfly.” — Unknown The transformation of an awkward, unattractive caterpillar into a graceful, winged butterfly is a remarkable spectacle and a powerful symbol of change, renewal, and growth. This journey of self-discovery teaches the caterpillar to embrace…
“The principle is competing against yourself. It’s about self-improvement, about being better than you were the day before.” — Steve Young, Hall of Fame quarterback for the San Francisco 49ers My favorite time of the year kicks off tonight with the opening of the 106th regular season of the NFL,…
“Every new beginning comes from some other beginning’s end.” — Seneca Labor Day on Sept. 1 marks the end of summer and the start of a new school year. For me, it’s always symbolized new beginnings, particularly regarding my health. I cherish the anticipation of a fresh start. While change…
“You can’t lose something you never had.” — Andie Anderson (Kate Hudson), from the 2003 movie “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days“ I write about several topics in this “Brave Butterfly” column: my hatred of hypoparathyroidism; my kids and family; sports (49ers season is…
“Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know what you’re gonna get.” — Forrest (Tom Hanks), from the 1994 movie “Forrest Gump” When I wrote most of this column on Sunday, I’d been confined to my hospital bed at Boca Raton Regional Hospital in Florida for…
“It was amazing. It was a great feeling, a feeling that can only come once in your lifetime, so I’m definitely taking in this moment. I’m very appreciative.” — Ji’Ayir Brown, San Francisco 49ers safety, reacting to being drafted in the third round as the 87th pick in the 2023…
“We didn’t realize we were making memories, we just knew we were having fun.” — A.A. Milne Summer is a time for escapades. From mountains to oceans and many places in between, life is an adventure meant to be lived, not passed by. I live each day fully, soaking…
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